Should Leaders Inspire Fear or Love?
According to surveys of more than a half million working people and their leaders, 72% of employees acknowledge that they do not give 100% to their jobs. Day after day, they just get by. And 77% of the leaders surveyed know their employees arenât making a real effort. Clearly, âHundred Percenters,â that is, dedicated, diligent workers, are hard to find and nurture. To reach their potential, they need â100% Leadersâ who connect with them and challenge them to be great.
âIf thereâs one hallmark of 100% Leaders, itâs pragmatism...They find out exactly what their best people want, and if itâs practical and possible, they make it happen.â
Based on 360-degree assessments of approximately 17,000 managers and executives, ineffective leaders tend to be âavoiders,â âintimidatorsâ or âappeasers.â Avoiders never connect with employees or challenge them to beat their limits. Intimidators challenge their employees but donât connect with them personally. Appeasers have no trouble connecting with employees, but they seldom challenge them. Hundred-percent leaders both challenge their employees and connect with them. Thus, the old question about whether good leaders are the ones their employees love or the ones employees fear is off the mark. Real leadership does not come from coddling employees or relentlessly browbeating them. Instead, 100% leaders ask people they obviously care about to push beyond their limits. These leaders succeed in financial management, staff retention and âinnovativeness.â
Setting âHARDâ Goals
Most employees are afraid to challenge themselves, and their leaders are just as scared to challenge them. Such fearfulness can undo companies. Wal-Mart breezed past Sears, which was stuck in the past. Kodak could not keep up with competitive challenges. The âBig Threeâ U.S. carmakers have embraced the status quo. Many employees are gripped by inertia. Doing something new is difficult, because it requires companies to leave their comfort zones. Few employees will make such changes by themselves. To be a 100% leader, you must challenge your people with ambitious goals that force them to stretch.
âDisappointingly small minorities [of employees] are coming in every day saying, âLetâs push the envelope, letâs be great, letâs do what nobody thought could be done.â
Set HARD goals that are:
- âHeartfeltâ â Money is a good motivator, but achieving something you believe in, something transcendent, is even better. Set goals that fit the âNOBLEâ formula: âName a party Other than ourselves who will Benefit from this goal Like customers or End users.â
- âAnimatedâ â Most corporate goals are dull. Make your goals inspiring by graphically, vividly describing the results. Avoid percentages, which donât excite anyone. Use absolute numbers. Dieters donât set out to drop 5% of their weight, but to lose 10 or 15 pounds. Numbers count; percentages do not.
- âRequiredâ â Explain why attaining your challenging goals is necessary. Survey your employees to confirm that they agree that the goal youâve set is crucial. If 70% say yes, you are in good shape; if fewer people concur, keep explaining and convincing.
- âDifficultâ â As goals become tougher, performance goes up. When supervisors assign jobs that require staffers to stretch to their limits, the employees will eventually like their supervisors and their companies even more than they previously did. Theyâll feel more fulfilled and satisfied about who they are and what they do. Set goals that are challenging, but not absurd. Be specific and concrete. A goal is difficult if it makes people learn new skills and if it seems âscary.â Believe it or not, slightly constraining resources can generate better results. People become too comfortable when they have everything they need to accomplish a job, and comfortable people donât push themselves.
The âIDEALS Scriptâ
Your employees are not perfect. When they push themselves to reach tough goals, theyâll make mistakes. As their leader, you must use âconstructive feedbackâ to discuss their errors in a direct way, so they donât repeat the same mistakes. The IDEALS script enables you to explain how to avoid future mistakes while having a nonthreatening, nonjudgmental conversation. This helps employees take responsibility and hold themselves accountable, without provoking âdenial, blame, excuses and anxiety.â
âThe harder the goals you set, the better your employees will perform.â
The acronym âIDEALSâ stands for this statement about working with employees to address errors:
- âInvite them to partnerâ â Bring the problem up gracefully by asking the person involved, âWould you be willing to have a conversation with me about [whatever went wrong]?â Opening a dialogue demonstrates your willingness to listen, so the person also will listen to you.
- âDisarm yourselfâ â From the beginning of the conversation, convey the message that you will not use any âweapons of communication,â such as anger, shouting, tantrums, and so on. Signal that your conversation will be reciprocal, not one-way.
- âEliminate blameâ â The employee probably already feels terrible about his or her mistake. Placing blame isnât helpful.
- âAffirm their controlâ â People become defensive if they feel they have no control over their situation. During your meeting, periodically ask, âDoes that sound OK?â to show that you value the employeeâs thoughts and feelings. This also lets you check that youâre getting through to the person in the way that you hope you are. If someone says, âNo, that doesnât sound OK to me,â you know you have to keep explaining.
- âList correct feedbackâ â Make sure that your constructive feedback is logical, sensible and understandable. Provide sufficient information to educate the employee about how to avoid the mistake in the future. To avoid micromanaging, follow this rule to identify constructive content: âIf something is not optional and if you will hold the employees accountable if they donât do it, you must give clear and logical feedback.â
- âSynchronize your understandingâ â End the conversation by making this open-ended statement: âTell me how you think we can work together to build on this and make things even more effective next time.â This approach is much better than asking, âDo you understand my feedback?â This is not the time for a close-ended question that requires only a yes-or-no response. Such questions constitute a poor litmus test for ensuring that the employee fully understands what you have tried to communicate.
The Momentum of Motivation
Survey research indicates that employees learn more about their jobs, and about how their companies handle things, from their fellow workers than from their supervisors. This does not support your effort to convert âFifty Percentersâ to hundred percenters. Fifty percenters might not want to work as hard as they see hundred percenters working. Since 100% employees always give their full effort, everyone turns to them when extra work looms, like weekend and late-night projects. Fifty percenters see that the 100% people receive lots of extra work, so why would anyone want to become a 100% staffer who isnât already one?
âPush employees to their full potential with âtough loveâ leadership.â
Change this perception by proving that being a 100% employee is worthwhile. Showcase your hundred percenters at every turn and spotlight them as company heroes. Provide positive and very public reinforcement when they do something productive and praiseworthy. Convey this message in all their performance appraisals. Signal that the 100% staffers will receive ample rewards.
The Downer of Demotivation
All employees require motivation, either external or internal, to work at the 100% level. Unfortunately, many leaders and organizations sometimes inadvertently demotivate employees, who then work at a level below what they are capable of achieving. Common wisdom to the contrary, money is not always the primary demotivating factor for employees. Any number of negative factors can discourage an employee: lack of opportunity for career advancement, inflexible hours, dull work projects, and the like.
âDemanding more of ourselves and one another is scary in an era where âhappiologyâ is our planetary religion.â
To find out what motivates and demotivates your employees, engage in a âshoves and tugsâ conversation with them. Find out what their individual âshovesâ are, that is, what elements of their work distress them and could tend over time to shove them âout the door.â Then identify their âtugs,â the characteristics of their work environment that tug at them to keep striving.
âThe iPod, the X-Box, the Amazon Kindle, Google, the Human Genome Project...were created by Hundred Percenters.â
Hold informal, individual shove-and-tug conversations with your employees at least once a quarter. Ask specifically when they felt demotivated at work during the past âmonth or two,â and why. Also ask about what motivated them. Once you have each personâs input, do everything you can to get rid of the shoves and increase the tugs. This wonât always be easy, but moving in this direction will help keep your hundred percenters working at their peak and will encourage your fifty percenters to climb to a higher level of performance.
The Attitude Adjustment
Some people are bright, imaginative, knowledgeable and resourceful, yet they will never be 100% employees because they have terrible attitudes. Despite their exceptional capabilities, these âTalented Terrorsâ bring down other team members. They make it tough for leaders to be effective; in fact, they can cost leaders their jobs.
âHundred Percenters get better results, feel more deeply fulfilled and are the key to every great corporate and cultural achievement.â
Donât even try to adopt a therapeutic approach to mitigate talented terrorsâ bad attitudes. Even psychologists are reluctant to attempt restructuring peopleâs personalities, so donât think that youâre equipped to do that. Instead, speak to a talented terror about his or her bad attitude. Be calm, candid and specific. Explain that a change in attitude is necessary and that the result of not changing may be termination.
10 Lessons for Creating a 100% Culture
To spur all employees to become hundred percenters, follow these 10 steps:
- âMake every goal HARDâ â Nothing you can do to develop a 100% corporate culture is more important than giving everyone challenging goals.
- âIntegrate HARD goals into performance managementâ â If you donât, employees will not take their objectives seriously.
- âMeasure whether you have a Hundred-Percenter cultureâ â Use well-designed employee surveys to assess your culture. Bad surveys can have a destructive effect on morale. Do not use âfive-point scalesâ that grade responses from âstrongly disagreeâ to âstrongly agree.â Within organizations, they provide skewed results. Instead, use âseven-point scaleâ surveys with response terms ranging from âneverâ to âalways.â This scaleâs broader parameters will record your employeesâ thoughts and feelings more accurately. Ask your people if they believe they are giving 100% daily, and if their supervisors are pushing them to achieve top performance.
- âMeasure whether you have 100% Leadersâ â Are your executives 100% leaders or appeasers, intimidators and avoiders? Find out by conducting 360-degree leadership assessments. Share your findings with your leaders to give them the self-knowledge to improve if necessary.
- âTrain your leaders to be 100% Leadersâ â Doctors, lawyers and engineers do not develop knowledge and skills intuitively. They undergo years of challenging education, followed by extensive systematic training. Why should your leaders be any different? Provide comprehensive training, continuing education and routine professional development.
- âLearn everyoneâs shoves and tugsâ â Get rid of the shoves. Track and record the tugs that work best. They are your greatest motivators for building a 100% culture.
- âReach for higher states of accountabilityâ â Give all employees regular feedback. Most staffers receive feedback on their work only twice weekly, and some only twice monthly. Like professional athletes, who constantly hear from their coaches, employees need routine feedback so they can improve and grow.
- âTurn your Hundred Percenters into heroesâ â Showcase them at every turn, including at board meetings and executive team meetings (let them sit in). Display hundred percenters throughout your organization. Talk about them. Make them role models.
- âImprove or remove your Talented Terrorsâ â They are a weight around your neck and everyone elseâs, including your hundred percentersâ. If they canât change, fire them.
- âStart wherever you canâ â Donât wait until the situation is perfect for change. Become active right away. Choose an important activity â surveying employees, providing leadership training, setting new goals â and get right to work.